Love is a Survival Skill: Parenting lessons from The Wild Robot Movie

*Spoiler alert: the text below includes details from the movie*

Forgive me for being late to the party. I recently saw The Wild Robot and…😭. This story isn’t just about a robot learning to survive in the wild. It’s about parenting in all its raw, beautiful, and heart-wrenching glory. Roz, the Wild (mama) Robot, takes us on an emotional journey that mirrors the highs and lows of raising a child, proving that love, learning, and letting go are tasks worth pursuing.

Relatable Cluelessness: "I do not have the programming to be a mother.” - Roz

That moment when you realize you’re about to become a parent, and suddenly, you have no idea what you’re doing? Yeah, that’s parenting in a nutshell. But like Roz, we activate our version of learning mode, absorbing everything we can about raising a child. But parenting isn’t just about learning how to care for a child. It’s about discovering ourselves in the process. Curiosity, adaptability, and growth are what transform us. We are not merely programmed to be parents; we become parents, learning to listen with our hearts rather than just our heads. 

Needing Support: "Eat, swim, fly by fall.”- Roz

Parenting isn’t a solo task. Roz wasn’t alone. She turned to Fink and the wise possum mother because support is crucial. Fink teaches Roz that storytelling shapes identity, security, and love. That’s the power of community. Whether it’s advice from fellow parents, reassurance from a friend, or a guiding hand from a grandparent, support helps us plan, be creative, and parent from the heart.

And oh, the patience! Remember the moment Roz lets Bright Bill help build their home? That quiet pause where we allow our child’s “inefficient participation” just to see their heart smile? We’ve all been there. And it’s worth it every time. 

Teaching Them to Swim: "I prefer he be independent closer to home.” -Roz

Roz wants Bright Bill to succeed but struggles with letting him go. Sound familiar? Whether it’s a child’s first day at school or navigating the social world, every parent has felt that tension of wanting to protect while knowing they must step back. The fear of bullying, the anxiety of how our children’s differences are perceived, the heartbreak of hearing, “You’re not my mom!” or any other zinger of that sort after everything you’ve done—it all stings.

And yet, parenting is a cycle of relearning. Just when we think we’ve got it figured out, new challenges arise, and we find ourselves needing more guidance and support. Like Roz, we must learn to override some of our instincts and realize parenting isn’t about control. It’s about trust. So, even when they struggle, even when we struggle, we can still grow together.

Teaching Them to Fly: "Your life is not negotiable."- Roz

When it was time for Bright Bill to fly, Roz was unwavering. “Your life is not negotiable.” This statement reflected a love so fierce and absolute that failure was never an option. Even when she could not teach him herself, she remained determined and found another way. Sometimes, supporting our children means confronting our fears, acknowledging our limitations, and asking for assistance.

Longneck, the elder goose, recognizes Roz’s relentless effort and offers a resonating truth: “He has a chance if where his wings end, his heart can pay the balance.” That's true for our kids too. Whatever their weaknesses, their heart may make the difference. We might also feel the same way as parents like we don't have enough to give. When we fall short and cannot do it all, our love can bridge the gaps in our limitations and carry our children the rest of the way. We won't do this perfectly, but we can be good enough.

Letting Them Go: "This flight is a gift Roz has given you."- Longneck

And then comes the moment they leave the nest, a moment we both dread and cherish. That’s what we do as parents—we give them the gift of flight. We invest every ounce of our love, strength, sleepless nights, and whispered prayers into them, knowing that one day they will soar on their own. “Fly like you, not like them.”

Parenthood doesn’t end when our children take flight; we continue to watch, hope, and love them in new ways. They carry our lessons, struggles, and love into the world and pass it on. That’s the beauty of parenting: our love outlives us and shapes the next generation.

If we take away nothing else from this movie, let’s remember that love is a survival skill. Let’s strive for it every day.

So yes, The Wild Robot moved me in the best way possible. At its core, it’s not just about a robot learning to be a mother; it’s about all of us—the parents who are learning, failing, and loving through it all.

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